
Images
of our youth and you dancing in the old Psarades and Paros
discos, back in the late 70s and early 80s, will be forever
etched in my memory. When you got up to dance, everyone else
cleared the dance floor to sit and watch. You danced in those
places in the same way you danced through your brief life...with
honor, dignity, elegance, splendor, and grace. Within your
soul you carried the riches of God, and were always a warm
and royal-hearted man.
On the October night that I talked last with you, I somehow
sensed it would be our last meeting. I am grateful to God
for bringing us together that night to share old memories,
to laugh, and to drink one final toast before your journey
home.
I, and those of us who loved you, shall console ourselves
with the assurance that now you are eternal in the heavens,
amongst the angels...and more likely than not, teaching them
all the Syrtaki or Zeybekiko. Opa, Vassili!
With love, tender affection, and fond rememberance,
Nick Kossoudji (Nick's Hamburgers)
Cincinnati, Ohio U.S
I had been fanticizing recently about going back to Paros
and introducing my children to Vassilis. He was so identified
in my mind with Greece, and Paros in particular, that I find
it hard to imagine him no longer there. I first met Vassilis
in 1971; I was visiting my sister Erika who was dancing on
Paros. That was the first of several summers we visited--we
came back with our other sister Laura and various boyfriends
and friends. And Vassilis would always generously open his
house or his store to us. One summer we stayed in his shop,
bedding down each night on the piles of antique clothes.
He took us dancing to discos, introduced us to his friends,
ran interference with the guardian of the public toilet.
Eventually Vassilis came to the US; he and Erika married.
Although I did see him here, it is in Greece surrounded by
the whitewashed houses and streets of PAros that I remember
him, a devilish sense of humor and a wicked gleam in his
eye. "I am Vassilis" he would announce and that is how I
remember him--a Zorba figure, larger than life.
Lisa Berland
I met Vassilis 20 years ago in 1983. We had some great times
together and I considered him my best friend on Paros. I
miss him so much. It has been very difficult to put together
some words and photos from our past. Vassilis visited Monica
and me in Florida several years ago. We had dinner at a greek
restaurant and Vassilis got up and danced for everyone. We
had 30 people there to see him and he proceeded to take us
on a magical journey grabbing me by the hand and everyone
else in the restaurant and danced us out the door and around
the square in St. Augustine. The next evening Vassilis myself
and Monica watched the space shuttle go off at midnight from
the beach. It was spectacular and we danced for joy. Six
years ago we traveled to Lesvos to see Vassilis and his home
in Mandamathos. We had a wonderful time. This past summer
we returned to Paros and spent two weeks with Vassilis. Somehow
I just did not believe that this was the last time we would
see him. So wh! en I heard the news he was no longer with
us it was a shock. This is my third good friend who has died
from brain cancer. As I returned from Paros this summer a
friend died who I had been helping fight brain cancer for
2 years. I have many photos of Vassilis and built a web site
for him 5 years ago. This summer I took him several times
to his favorite swimming place - Voutakos. He was so happy
to be able to swim there again. I am sending along a photo
from our last time together. We visited Stelios and Monique,
and this photo is a combination of two pictures from that
day.
Dinos
The year was 1973, it was a freezing, cold, damp, windy winters
day. Vassili, always being generous, extended an invitation
to my sister and I, to his home during the afternoon hours.
We sat there, philosophized, "solved the world's problems",
talked about everything under the sun, drank mountain tea,
laughed, debated, cried, ribs sometimes aching so much we
cried from the pain! We listened to Roberta Flack, "The
First Time, Ever I Saw Your Face") for about 4 hours,
over and over, then blues, then Greek music. The afternoon
turned into evening, I will NEVER forget that day. That was
the day I really got to know Vassili and the day itself,
was just "one of those great days" you have in
your life. He was an old, old soul and yet so VERY MUCH ahead
of his time...may the earth rest gently upon you Vassili.
I will look out tonight, for surely the stars will be dancing...
gia sou Vassili
Susanna
In the back in the summer of 2002, the cafe next door to
my shop in the Kastro had a musician playing traditional
tunes on an accordion. Vassilis passed by and gave me an
impromptu lesson in zebekiko dancing. I knew that I was watching
a master as he effortlessly and elegantly moved around the
little shop. His delight in his craft was contagious and
this is a memory I will treasure forever.
Lornie Caplan
Dear All, I cannot believe that Vassili is no longer with
us! I can only hope that his ending was a peaceful one. We
will always treasure the times we spent together on Paros.
He will still be dancing wherever he is.
Yours truly, Jane, Kamal and Talah Kaddourah (London)
I will always have the vision of Vassilis dancing in the
courtyard of my godfather's restaurant (then Climatoria,
now Levantis).
It was quite spontaneous, he leapt up and danced until we
were spellbound with his energy, most of us longing to be
him. He had a different way of communicating, a quirky sense
of humour and would always do the opposite of what you expected.
Paros has changed so much in the last twenty years, the characters
of my childhood have faded away into new bars, buildings,
mobile phones and "Progress." I feel lucky to have
known Vassilis, his dynamism, his passion and his refusal
to be governed by anything other than his own inner mental
compass.
Emma Russell
Dear Vassilis,
Dear Oregano, thank you very much for all the time we could
spend together:
sitting in front of your shop, talking; having dinner at
your place, under
the olive trees; beeing your guests on Lesvos; having breakfast
by Lindt
& Sprüngli; and of corse all the dances we had together, in Paros, Lesvos
and Helvetia. And thank you very much for teaching your brother
dyonissos and me greek
dancing. What a gift! Kalo taxidi, with all the waves, colores,
aromas, dreams and hopes. Centrumaki,
colores
DANKE VASSILIS DANKE LEBEN! ·24.
Oktober 1947 bis 4. November 2003
für deinen Tanz, für deine Ode an das Leben!
VASSILIS !
Deine Füße auf diesem Planeten: Geflügelte
Verbindung zu allem was vor uns war.
VASSILIS !
Deine Augen auf diesem Planeten: Sie trinken das Wunder
Natur andächtig bescheiden.
VASSILIS!
Deine Hände auf diesem Planeten: Ertasten, berühren,
erspüren was ist, zärtlich,
sinnlich und voller Demut.
VASSILIS!
Dein großes Herz auf diesem Planeten: Allumfassend
ohne Raum und Zeit, Materie setzt dir keine Grenzen. Wohin
dein Herz dich zieht, dort kamst und kommst du immer an.
VASSILIS!
Der Planet muß leben lernen ohne dich!
Wird der Planet, seine Menschen, die Natur, alle Dinge,
alle Mythen, Träume, Sagen leben lernen
ohne deine Flügelfüße, ohne deine Augen,
deine Hände,
dein großes Herz?
Sabine B.
Im Namen aller Freunde und Menschen, die Vassilis liebten/lieben
und unendlich vermissen:
HANNA M.
norrige Olivenhaine,
Duftende Wiesen, Zarte Knospen,
Pralle Früchte
Wilde und sanfte Winde,
Lebendiger Stein, murmelnde Bäche
Rollendes, grollendes, schäumendes
Murmelndes, stilles, dunkles, klares
Schwarzes, blaues, türkisgrünes,
Goldfarbenes, glutrotes Meer
Denn alles hat für dich eine Seele,
Schwingung, Magie
Durch alle Materie dringt dir der Puls des Lebens
Andächtige Berührung mit sanfter Kraft
Sabine
Dear Ones,
After hearing the news of our friend Vassilis passing away,
I have informed our teacher here to do some prayers while
we lit 100 candles this evening in front of our alter in
memory of him.
We pray for his mind/soul to have a peaceful journey into
the next life, while the fond memories of his grace and joyfulness
during his life, remain with us forever.
I am going to show the video that I took of his dance class's
in Karuna, (while I was there in spring of 2000.) to our
resident monks and nuns here as to introduce his joyful personality,
and which will also help to put an image to the name of the
person that we pray for.
May all his heartfelt wishes be fulfilled in whatever existence
he may be going to.
Much Love and Prayers to every one, Mikhalis :)
Vassili's smile is missing to me each time I go back home.
His shop stays always opposite to my home to remeber me his
simplicity and his benevolence.
Kostas Passos
For more than 14 years Vassilis was the teacher of "Greek
Dance and Mythology" for the German company "SKR Bonn". All
the workshops he had done in Greece and Germany, he always
did it in a special, personal manner of teaching. Everytime
it was more than only learning steps. At the end the people
were swinging like waves in the ocean, feeling the nature
and dance for the goddess. The most place he loved was the
real special place "Eftalou" on his island Lesvos. This summer
he came back for some greek dance lessons, and he forgot
his pain. This wonderful music and his small steps while
dancing was a celebration of dance without one word. And
at the end he only said:" Nehmt den Tanz mit auf die Reise".
He knew, that he was standing on the begin of another journey
and now he will dance with the goddness, the angels and the
stars on heaven. Thank you Vassilis for the time you spent
with us. So you give us an idea how wonderful dance is -
to be in the harmony with earth and heaven - Good by dancer
and friend, we will see you dance with Aphrodite and Sappho
and we will miss you in Eftalou, the place you loved so much.
The SKR Team Luise Müller and your students
Nach dem letzten Schritt
auf dieser Erde ging er auf
die große Reise.
Wir sehen ihn,
der sich Tanz-Nomade nannte,
unendlich tanzen in
der anderen Welt.
with love to vassilis from all his friends from "Evangelische
Akademie Bad Boll"
Marliese Dieckmann
40 days after his burial we had a wonderful celebration for
Vassilis in the church in Athens with his family and also
friends. We read all the letters and e-mails from Paros.
The family was very thankful to see, how many people love
the dancer, brother and friend and all of them miss him so
much. There is only one Vassilis. He was laughing when I
called him in the last year VIP from Mandamados. But I will
never forget the festival in Mandamados/Lesvos 2002, when
he jumped sponaniously up to the stage and celebrate the
Zeimbekiko dance for the people of his village, light as
air, like an eagle, so concentrated, so full of energy and
harmony with himself - that was a gift for all of us!
Thank you Vassilis, VIP of Mandamados
Regina
Er
tanzt federleicht
für alle Menschen
den Tanz des Lebens
allein
with love to the dancer Vassilis who celebrated the wonderful
greek nights in our village Argenos for all the people -
dancing like the old times on his island Lesvos with never
ending steps - you call her "kore from Lesvos"
Regina Laboch
Just after the fall of the military junta in 1974, my family
and I arrived on one of the last boats to Paros before they
were commandeered as hospital ships for Cyprus. Being stranded
in what was then a foreign country to me was quite overwhelming.
But there was Vassilis. Crowding the whole family into his
tiny shop on the market street each afternoon, we listened
to the BBC World Service to find out what was going on.
That was the beginning of a long mutual adoration society.
Vassilis made the wedding video for my sister when she married
on Paros. We danced together in Psarades, Vassilis choreographing
new steps to old dances to show what Greek dancing was all
about.
For many years Vassilis remained a friend and confidant and
will always hold a place in my heart.
Hard as it was for me to leave Paros in 1991 after so many
years, there are people who will always be family – Vassilis
was one of them. I am sad the world has lost such a shining
individual but grateful that he was part of my life.
Caroline Caiger
In 1987, my husband, Patrick, and I were married on Paros.
Vassilis kindly offered to do the video of our wedding day.
For our first dance as man and wife, we did a waltz we had
learned in ballroom dancing classes. Vassilis had never seen
that kind of dancing before and was so entranced that he
forgot to have the camera rolling!
But this accidental omission was more than compensated for
when Vassilis performed for us. My brother quickly grabbed
the camera and so, in the years to come, we will be able
to watch Vassilis dance again and again.
And he will dance in our hearts always,
Susan Healey
Canada
Vassilis zeigte uns nach einer für uns sehr schweren
Zeit ,seine Lieblingsplätze auf Lesbos,die ersten Schritte
zu tanzen, seine Liebe zur Natur und den Sternen. Nie werden
wir seine kindliche Freude uns Aufgeregheit vergessen , als
wir mit ihm die Mondfinsternis auf Naxos erlebten. "Das ganze
Leben ist ein Tanz", sagte er oft. Wir sind dankbar ihn gekannt
zu haben und traurig , dass er gehen musste!
Barbara und Kurt
In memory of Vassilis-the-Friend
Are you Vassilis-the-Dancer ? - thus I had asked you
when we met for the first time, on the island of Lesbos.
Your answer:
Yes, so it is - and it would be nice to see
you on Sunday night at Eftalou, joining us for dancing.
I went there, and that evening appeared to be the starting-point
of our deep-felt friendship for years.
Slowly, there was developing a big mutual understanding between
us, on an unconscious and obscure level.
Vassilis, you have been ranging amongst my few closest and
best friends. I think it is a privilege that we - you and
me - have met on our dancing paths through our life. I shall
keep on having great respect for you as a lovable and marvellous
fellow, with your kind heart, your thoughtfulness, your generosity,
your grievances. And I am aware that you have been a gifted
member of mankind, connected in a rather seldom way to the
miracles, the mysteries and the beauties of our planet and
of the universe.
You have shared parts of your personal identity, by talking
about your roots, by showing your love and respect for the
island of Lesbos, by introducing your friends and visiting
with them, by setting free your feelings in touching or dull
moments.
Together, we were dancing, moving, staying at places - magical,
charming, full of power and inspiring -, having fun, playing,
swimming, hiking, chatting, talking, cooking, eating, contemplating,
meeting people, watching sunrise and sunset, or the full
moon creeping up from the horizon where the sky and the Aegean
Sea touch each other, feeling the wind whispering in the
olive trees, inhaling the smell of laurel and oregano, sipping
the pure water in the nymphs' valley, listening to the nightingales
at midnight.
One of your messages, sent to me some time ago, reads:
Let us pray for the life to dance with us - thanks to
life.
The waves - TA KYMATA - of the Aegean sea, while caressing,
gently or roughly at times, the shores of Lesbos, place of
power, will tell about and remember eternally Vassilis-the-Friend,
the dancer from Lesbos.
TO KYMA
I remember Vassili from the many many summers I have spent in
Paros. Ofcourse the yellow bicycle outside of his shop became
as famous as the "Bookends" ~ the twin rocks on the
way in to Parikia the Port of Paros. I wonder if anyone
has that photo of Vassili resting in among a vast collection
of plastic bottles ? He was always one of the friendly faces
that I looked forward to seeing when I returned to Paros
~ things will not be the same without him. Sadly this
summer was the first time that I failed to see him in Paroikia
as I was staying for the first time out of the town,
certainly I called at the shop to find it closed each time,
I assumed that he was in Lesvos as he often had been in previous
years. I see a message from Dino and Monica who I knew
well in years past... I know Vassili would often speak of
them to me.
Liza
Cristallclear night with thousands of stars
Salazar
sometimes noisy windy blackblue
fires warming in the winter
early morning orange sunrises
dancing and singing together with Vassilis and other
people up high in the old stone circles
so alive in the old ruins of Lempetimnos
between the aged olivetrees.
Through my work with Vassilis I feel so enriched by
the incredibly beautiful nature of Lesbos which became unique
through the way Vassilis loved and honoured all these places.His
feet always dancing gently on every spot, the earth smiling
when she was touched by his dances.Time allowed to be so
slow...
Thank you, Vassilis, for all this that you gave to me and
which will be continuing in my own work and life.
FASKOMILIA
I did not know Vassilis other than a few exchanges of
emails. He was so kind and thoughtful in so many
ways. Because of our same last names "Yakoumis",
I contacted him via email to see how we might be related. Neither
of us had a clue but I'm sure somewhere in time our bloods
crossed. He will be missed and I am sorry that I
didn't get to know him better and visit the country of
my heritage. He had such tremendous talent. God
Bless.
Candace Yakoumis Rayfield
My father was Angelo Yakoumis and my uncle Vassili Yakoumis. They
came to America in about 1929 from a Greek Island. There
were members of the family still in Greece. Vassillis looks
very much like my father who also loved to dance and enjoy
life to the fullest. I would be interested in pursuing
information to determine whether I am related. My name is
Gertrude because
my mother was German my middle name is Katherina and my
maiden name Yakoumis. My brother is William which is English
for Vassilis I think. Vassilis also appears to resemble
my brother.
Trudy Dickinson
When I first came to Naxos, I spent my holidays in "Orkos", 17 km out of the
town, in a beautiful calm place at the sea.
Here was Vassilis, teaching greek traditional dance. Two weeks we enjoyed every
day in the aftternoon dancing wit him during sunset. It was such a peaceful time
with him and he was so happy to introduce his beloved greek "Xopos". He was a
person completely intigrated in nature, living a simple, natural life. His special
humor his open mind and heart went deep in our hearts.
Three weeks before he died he spent one week in our house in Naxos. We lived
together in such harmony, he enjoyed so much staying with us. And we were happy
take care of him in the last days of his life. We are thankful for this time
and will never forget him and his special personality.
Farewell VASSILI......
Senta and Niko from Engares.
Erinnerung an Vassilis,
Vor 18 Jahren (1986) durften wir ihn bei einem Rucksack-Trip über die Inseln
kennenlernen, da waren wir 17 und 20 Jahre alt. Sein Humor und Charme war uns
sehr sympathisch, er lud uns gleich ein vor seinem shop sitzen zu bleiben, da§ taten
wir dann auch öfters. Wir hatten viel Spaß damals. Beim workshop
in Bonn meldete er sich noch bei uns, es gibt Menschen die man nicht vergisst
Judith und Bine aus Köln
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